Hello There,
I was testing a personality test using www.16personalities.com. And i did conduct testing was in 2022 The result that i got is Commander 😀.
Here is the pdf related for Commander explanation in detail and this is my testing result.
My experience and background is in IT field, which most people not all people has this personality test must in high number of Introvert.
I must admit, I used to be very shy and had zero confidence when it came to meeting new people. Ironically, my job required me to meet people all the time — and I’m glad it still does to this day. 😉
Time by time, day by day, i did practice by myself to improve my-self to not shy/silent to meet people during a meeting. These are a few points that i learnt so far.
1. BE A FRONT SEATER
Whether it’s a meeting, a classroom, or any similar situation, most people tend to rush for the back rows so they won’t be “too noticeable.” The reason behind this is often a lack of confidence, and it’s true.
Sitting up-front build a confidence. Practice it from now on.
2. PRACTICE MAKING EYE CONTACT
How person uses his eyes tells us a lot about him. Usually, failure to make eye contact says one of two things. It may say “i feel weak beside you. I feel inferior to you. i’m afraid to you”. Or avoiding another person’s eye may say “I feel guilty, i’ve done something or i thought something that i don’t want you to know. I’m afraid if i let my eyes connect with yours, you’ll see through me”.
Make your eyes work for you. Aim them right at the others person’s eyes. it is not only gives you confidence. It wins your confidence, too.
3. WALK 25% FASTER
Psychologist link slovenly posture and sluggish walking to unpleasant attitudes toward oneself, work and the people around us. But psychologist also tell us you can actually change your attitudes by changing your posture and speed of movement. Watch, and you discover that body action is the result of mind action. The extremely beaten people, the real down-and-outers just shuffle and stumble along. They have zero self-confidence.
4. PRACTICE SPEAKING-UP
In working, they are many kind of groups of all sizes. I have watched many persons with keen perception and much native ability freeze and fail to participate in discussion. It is not these folks don’t want to get in and wade in the rest. Rather its simple lack of confidence.
The conference clam thinks to himself, “My opinion is probably worthless. If i say something, i’ll probably look foolish. i’ll just say nothing. Besides, the others in the groups probably know more than I. I don’t want the others people know how ignorant i am”.
This is very important : each time our clam fails to speak, he takes one or more dose of confidence poison. He becomes less and less confident of himself.
But on the positive side, the more you speak up, the more you add to your confidence, and the easier it is to speak-up in the next time. Speak up, it is confidence-building vitamin.
And never worry about looking foolish. You won’t. For each person who doesn’t agree with you. Odds are another person will.
5. SMILE BIG
This one is the most i like so much. Most people have heard at one time or another that smile them the real boost. They have been told that is a smile is excellent medicine for confidence deficiency.
Smile big and you feel like “happy days are here again”. But smile big. A half-developed smile is not fully guaranteed. Smile until your teeth show. That large-size smile is fully guaranteed.
I’ve heard many times, “Yes, but when i fear something, or when i’m angry, I don’t feel like smiling”.
Of course you don’t. No one does. The trick is to tell yourself forcefully. “I’m going to smile”. Then smile. Harness the power of smiling 😀.
Those 5 points i did practice it, and the result that i have now is more confidence meet the people 🥰. I found also a book called “The Magic Of Thinking BIG”, that book changed me a lot, an inspiring book that change the way you are thinking.
There are dozen important points in this book that you might know.
Happy reading! ❤️💕
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